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Q&A Checklist

Print this list of questions to discuss with your family before taking a long trip.

1. Should we have a specific seating chart so the kids won't argue over where each should sit and next to whom?

2. Should we plan pit stops in accordance with how long the trip is or should they be played by ear?

3. Have we packed enough suitable snacks?

4. Has everyone gone to the bathroom before loading the car (whether they say they have to or not)?

5. Did we prepare enough entertaining games for the trip?

6. Did we work a book-swapping schedule for the kids, so no one argues over who gets to read what and when?

7. Do the kids have their portable audio systems and selected CDs?


Kids + Car + Long Trip = Insanity!

Just as planning a trip can be exciting, it can also be a dreaded thing. If you have kids, then you know why. That one annoying and dreaded question can cramp any happy camper's mood. You know the question — "Are we there yet?" Sometimes it's disguised as "How much farther do we have to go?" Either way, when repeated constantly, family bonding suffers.

So, how then can you salvage the fun in family trips? Here's a list of helpful strategies to follow when taking a long car ride with the kids.

Music is a Must Everyone has different tastes in music, and while agreement may be easy at the start of a trip, it soon fades out. Instead of having to settle for "silent car rides," make sure to pack for the occasion with personal CD players. This way the kids can listen to the CDs they want, while parents groove to their own tunes.

Food Frenzy Eating in the car may be a "no-no" for some parents, but when the trip is long and kids are involved, it's almost impossible to abide by that rule. So, make sure to stock a cooler full of light snacks in spill-proof containers. And if your kids don't share well, pack treats in identical single servings or pick up Lunchables.

Loving Literature Bring readable props, even if your kids aren't old enough to read or don't like reading. Many kids will eventually realize that flipping through a book full of pictures or a magazine full of pop stars is more interesting than staring out at a highway. Sometimes photo albums can keep kids occupied too. Or check out Amazon.com's selection of audio books for kids

Game Greats We're obviously not talking board games here. Little pieces all over the car won't help the situation much. However, clever and simple games can make for time-consuming fun. And don't forget handheld video games such as Game Boy Advance.


Written by Anna Marie Neri

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Keep the Peace Tip

Before a trip, go to your local dollar store, and pick up a bunch of small toys. Make sure, if you have more than one child, to buy the same of everything. Then, go home and prepare several goodie bags. The number of bags should correspond to the number of hours the trip takes. Let the kids know on the day of the trip that for each hour they behave, a small treat bag will be awarded to them. Watch how obedient they quickly become!


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Name Your Game

Try these games to make long car rides with the kids seem shorter.

• Young kids may enjoy coloring books. Make sure to pack only a few crayons (not markers), so a whole pack of 24 or more isn't lying all over the floor.

• Older kids may enjoy crossword puzzles or word finds. You can usually find these at local grocery stores.

Highlights for Children magazine often has plenty of hidden image puzzles. Also, "Where's Waldo? " books can keep kids searching for Waldo for a long, quiet time.

• Connect the Dots and Tic Tac Toe make great car games. Prepare a sheet for Tic Tac Toe ahead of time, or invest in a Connect the Dots book.

• Verbal games like "I'm Going on a Picnic" can keep kids busy thinking of alphabetical foods to "take on a picnic" instead of fighting or whining.

• Less effective, but fun road games also include pointing out different license plates or specific car models. Keep a notepad handy to mark who saw how many of each and fairly determine a winner at the end of a trip.
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